Dec 10
How often do you congratulate yourself on a job well done? When have you ever bought yourself a present because you've been really kind to yourself and helped get yourself out of a rut?
As Christmas is just around the corner (in most of your local shops since just after Halloween), why not consider all the great things you have done for yourself this year? Don't be hard on yourself there will be awesome moments where you have taken care of yourself. Times where you have just taken a step away from a situation sat yourself down and relaxed, those are the moments when you have truly helped yourself from the heart and shown yourself the love you deserve.
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You may look back and see that you haven't rewarded yourself for these moments so for Christmas give yourself the gift of gratitude and celebration for who you are and the joy you can bring into your life when you love yourself. Gratitude is usually something we reserve for others and so neglect our own spirit, there is no reason not to be grateful for your positive actions or for simple things that you have found difficult in the past, such as getting up in the morning!
Make sure the present is something that resonates with your heart and will energise your soul so that you are able to love yourself even more than you already do.
Nov 30
"Your task is not to seek for love,
but merely to seek and find
all the barriers within yourself
that you have built against it."
Helen Schucman
How often have you blamed outside influences for your failure at finding love? Or have you blamed it on your outward appearance?
The place to look for the reason is within. What patterns are there to your failures? What can you learn from them? How could you do things differently?
Remember, if you keep doing the same thing you will always get the same results.
